Nothing Beats Kindness

It’s hard to choose which words to quote from Charlie Mackesy’s beautiful book The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and The Horse. His work carries such quiet wisdom — a reminder of what matters. Charlie is always worth following, on Instagram or wherever his words find you.

“Nothing beats kindness,” said the horse. “It sits quietly beyond all things.”
— Charlie Mackesy, The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and The Horse

The First Notes Of Summer

The cicadas sang louder and yet louder.
The sun did not rise, it overflowed.
— Ray Bradbury, Dandelion Wine

Summer feels as if it’s arriving. Two warm days in a row, cicadas in full voice — the season suddenly here.

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Live The Questions

I want to beg you, as much as I can, dear sir, to be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves like locked rooms and like books that are written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.
Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters To A Young Poet

Rilke’s words remind me of my impatience — my need for clarity, for certainty, for knowing how to live forward. But these things take time. Looking back now, I see that if I had allowed more to unfold in its own way, the road to here might have been gentler. Some of the answers might have come more quietly, and with fewer struggles.

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Man’s Search For Meaning

There are books that stay with us because they open something quiet and essential within us. Viktor Frankl writes of the one freedom no circumstance can take away: the freedom to choose our attitude, our way. He reminds us that when life cannot be changed, we are invited to change ourselves; and, that in extraordinary situations, our most human reactions are natural.

Man’s Search for Meaning is a book I return to often. Each reading is a reminder of what matters — presence, and the work of shaping our inner world. One of my all time favourite books.

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.
Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning

An abnormal reaction to an abnormal situation is normal behaviour.
Victor Frankl

My copy is a much older edition but I couldn’t find an image for it.